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This page is under construction!!!!!
This page is under construction!!!!!


One big difference
*You can get some information by automatically imagining it.
**What might the other person by paying attention to
**What are they expecting to hear you say
**What might be going on in their head to help them make sense of each new piece of information that you're giving them
*You don't need to respond to the information because it's not being presented to you by the other person sharing it.
*It doesn't take the time it would take for them to tell you about these things or for you to respond to these things.
*What you imagine doesn't have to match what's going on in the teddy bear's head
**Normal conversations are much more dependent on what's going on with your specific conversation partner.  TBTS conversations
*It's not about that.  It's about your experience as the talker and what the imagining of these things does for you in terms of what you're then saying or thinking.


Imagining what the other person is paying attention to, what are they expecting to hear you say, what's going on in their head, etc.
Without their having to say anything and without your having to respond to anything, you've been able to benefit from their presence and attention. Sometimes you may even feel more of their presence and attention and their benefits when they have said less


But doesn't take the time it would take for them to tell you all of what you're imagining, and you don't need to respond to any of it if you don't want to. 
now have an audience


Note:  it doesn't have to match what's actually going on in their head!  It's about your experience as the talker and what the imagining of these things does for you in terms of what you're then saying or thinking.
You now can run simulations
 
 
But, it doesn't take the time it would take for them to fill you in on their experience, and their experience need not be anywhere near what you're imagining.
 
without their having to say anything and without your having to respond to anything, you've gotten some of the benefits of their presence and attention.

Revision as of 12:50, 25 March 2020

This page is under construction!!!!!

  • You can get some information by automatically imagining it.
    • What might the other person by paying attention to
    • What are they expecting to hear you say
    • What might be going on in their head to help them make sense of each new piece of information that you're giving them
  • You don't need to respond to the information because it's not being presented to you by the other person sharing it.
  • It doesn't take the time it would take for them to tell you about these things or for you to respond to these things.
  • What you imagine doesn't have to match what's going on in the teddy bear's head
    • Normal conversations are much more dependent on what's going on with your specific conversation partner. TBTS conversations
  • It's not about that. It's about your experience as the talker and what the imagining of these things does for you in terms of what you're then saying or thinking.

Without their having to say anything and without your having to respond to anything, you've been able to benefit from their presence and attention. Sometimes you may even feel more of their presence and attention and their benefits when they have said less

now have an audience

You now can run simulations

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